so right now i havent come out yet,
but i think im getting to an ahe when i should, i kind of want too but at the same time i really dont want too. I dont really care cos like when im with my friends or family it doesnt matter i dont even think about it and its like it doesn actually matter but then someone will say the word 'gay' or it will get mentioned in some way and my mind starts being like 'maybe i should come out now but i cant'.
it should be easy cos my best friend is bi(girl) but i still dont want too (party because i think she will tell someone), I have also managed to convince this friends thart im straight and she is so sure im straight but then i also do have camp moments so i really dont know anymore
can anyone help please
x

Well, I'd say just the fact that you seem hesitant about coming out is a possible red flag. I mean, once you're out, it's hard to get back in, ya know? What makes you think this friend will tell? Does she have a bad track record with keeping secrets? If not, you could come out to her and ask her not to tell, and hopefully, she'll respect your wishes. Are your friends supportive of you? Are the supportive of gay rights? You could try 'testing the waters'. Bring up a gay issue, any gay issue, and get their thoughts on it, and see if those thoughts are generally negative or positive. That would give you an idea on what to expect if you come out.
Also, are you secure in your sexuality? It would be best to come out when you have fully accepted that you're gay/bi/whatever, in my experience. Just in case, you know?

When my friends were talking about gay people before I came out they were all saying how they would love a gay friend, was really nice to hear.