People insulting me are more often than not, made to feel quite stupid by the time I am done.. I never say much to them, usually laughing and telling them that they need new material because the only thing about them that is funny is the fact that they think they are funny.


When people pck on those I care about.... my reaction varies.. but it hurts a lot more than when they pick on me (doesn't happen often that people pick on me... they tend to be afraid of anyone they have to look up to try to stare down) If someone is physically abusing someone I care about.. I will do something about it.. usually only to the point of throwing the abuser off... but I've been known to do worse ..


The worst thing someone has ever said to me... and the only insult that has ever really hurt.. was shortly after I found out I had a son.. we were in the mall, and someone said something to the effect of "What? Pretty boy not young enough for you anymore?"

I wanted to do something.. lash out, cry.. both seemed like good ideas.. but instead, I kept walking, and ignored them as best I could... It took a bit of explaining to my son what they were talking about when we got home.. but it didn't affect him at all.

I actually haven't had any bad remarks about it.
Said to my face, at least.
I chose pretty reliable and accepting people to come out to.

Hmm well there have been a few

when i had long hair a stupid guy in my class said "you look like a really ugly girl" - which was very hurtfull.

Ben x

poof has almost become my new name to some people, but im not fussed

one guy really pisses me off when he goes on about how he loves lesbians but hates gay guys i donmt like beign called afaggot either but apart from that i dont let it get to me

I was told by a policeman when I was young: 'It is boys like you who make pedophiles think it is okay to have sex with children.'

"i thought better of you" said my best friend at the time i came out

oh my favourite? i cant choose!

how about "though, im still uncomfortable about the fact that you like boys, is that ok with you?"
"no"

or

"yeah, i just dont get you people, i mean..."
"thanks, (i really hate you too)"

and

"yeah, its really disgusting that you like boys"
"ok"

pretentious asshole, just say it, just call me a fag so i can actually hate you ><
this is what happens when you go to a supposedly tolerant nerd school
dont get me wrong, my other two friends are really supportive though

Well i think the worst one ive had has to have come from one of my best friends.

We were talking and then she said

"Well most gay people i know are really desperate and they think its easier for no strings sex"

she was in a huff and i forgave her much later

OUCH

xx<br /><br />Post edited by: curlyXfries, at: 2007/09/21 07:39

This was years back before my mom suspected {Now I know that she knows I'am gay, though I am too much of a coward to actually tell her I am} that I was gay.. We were watching tv and somehow the topic turned to homosexuals. She then said I qoute &quot;I think gay people have some mental issues, and that they should be placed in mental institutions for their own good&quot;. I sat there awkwardly and simply agreed trying to cover my blushing red ears.

hmm nt tht many bad things hav been said but this 1 got to me when i was raw and emotionally exposed ...

Me: '' I think im not bi u no...''

Mate: ''Fantastic!!!

Me: '' Yer im Gay instead...''

Mate: ''Oh...... I just dnt get you people... ur naturally supposed to be with a girl ... i cant understand u ''

Me: Fuck u homohater... just try and sympathise if u cant empathise''


We're still best m8s hes just a bit tactless and tends to speak his mind at the wrong time... meh