I'll try and make this short and sweet..

I like this guy in my school.. we were in the same class together last year and i really didn't talk to him that much (nervousness).. anyways this year were not in any classes together and hes usually always hanging around with his friends and never alone.. I have him on msn and i want to tell him how i feel about him but if hes straight i don't want him to freak out or anything and block me cause that would make me pissed and sad.. i feel kinda stupid cause its been like over a year and i haven't said anything to him about it..
so my question is should i tell him over msn or in person?
i always get that saying in my head "if you don't ask him now, then you'll spend the rest of your life wondering what he would've said"

i just dont know how to put it.. should i just flat out say it or give him a page of explanation??

big thanks in advance

Hey mate,

Never say things like this over MSN, i prefer always in person. Let me tell you why...People can often take things the wrong way over msn and only because there is no body language in what your saying, just text. The only emotion that is put into the text is what the reader puts into it and most times people can read things the wrong way depending upon how they think. I can't say talking to him in person would work but its better. I tried telling a friend in person and he wasn't nice about it at all so yeh i lost a friend over that. but it just shows he wasn't much of a friend in the end anyway, his loss. But yeh I would speak to him on msn a bit more (if you haven't done so already) and then tell him you wanna speak to him at school etc....and when u guys are alone just let him know. Its better knowing what he will say than not asking at all and as you said wondering all your life OH i wonder what he would of said hehe. See what I mean? Just try and ease him into it.

Hope that helps a bit and goodluck!


-Justin

yeah I agree don't do it over msn! lol. And don't do it straight away, I reckon starting talking to this guy and try to become closer friends that way he's less likely to freak out if he is straight