Coming out eh, well mine was actually kinda romantic although it is going to seem a little impossible but i swear this is how it happened.
i was only a Corporal (Air Cadet) at the time and was sent away on a Summer Camp to RAF Waddington where i ended up falling for the Cadet Warrent Officer. He was 6ft tall, with blond hair and blue eyes and a great body to match. We got on as NCO's do but they all have their own little clechs so i didnt always get alot of time to talk to him. Most of the time Cadets and Corporals stay together and Sergeants and above stay together.
One night the CWO asked a flight Sergeant to fetch me to his room. Needless to say i was extremly nervous, he'd been saying things when other guys spoke about girls he'd say things like "Breast are nothing inspiring" and everytime i looked at him he was already looking at me and smiling. (Note. Cadet Warrent officers are generally moody sods)
I went to his room and he was there in nothing except a towel wrapped around his waist, i went to walk back out giving my appologies but he insisted i stayed. So i stood still and he walked around me a few times then took my berret from my head and ran his fingers through my hair. Needless to say i liked it and leaned into it. Then he said, "You are, arent you?"
"I beg your pardon?" I had no idea what he was on about
"You're gay, and you like me." Well i couldnt exactly deny it now so i admitted it. You're not getting to know what happened soon after but after telling Jamie i got more confident and told my tight circle of friends who couldnt have been more supporting if they tried, they even helped me tell my mum and dad (Prick been gone for 7 years)
There is only one person in my entire family who doesnt know and that is my grandpa (GOD) he scares me