How many of you have said this?

Answer : almost all of you.

Most threads on here ask of wanting a boyfriend/girlfriend and how to get one. So, as ive been dating for a good few years now, (and appear to be quite successful at it) i'll give you a few secrets about getting one.

1) Stop Looking. Yeah i know, this one sounds crazy right? But seriously if you stop looking it wont bother you as much. Instead...

2) Hang out more with your friends. This is the ticket! By having fun with your friends, you are subconciously flirting, and giving off a sexual vibe, people around notice this, and as you make more friends, your kool, unconcerned attitude, becomes a turn on!

3) Be yourself! You must be yourself!! Or else what is there for people to fall for? If you find yourself hanging around with people and having to pretend to be someone else, then get rid! Yeah its gonna be hard for a while, until you find a few friends where u can truely be you!! Then trust me, its an awfullot better then where u were before!!

Remember to smile!! Its an aphrodisiac, basically that means, it turns people on! If u pass someone, smile at them, its free and makes you feel good about yourself.

So thats it, the secrets of getting a boyfriend or girlfriend, are just as easy as making yourself happy! give it patience and enjoy it guys!!!

I guess it's a really good method ! I'm applying it since more than one year ! So i guess that it could work someday ! But i'm really young for the moment, so i just take my time and enjoy !
Have a wonderful day !
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Sam

p.s. guys if u found this informative please bump it so everyone gets a chance to see it and goodluckgay u hang in their, u gorgeous someone will be along soon xx

very true. or do more 'community' things and make new friends--that also helps you to seem more "notice-able"

Thanks guy ! You're too kind (and gorgeous !!)
Have a good day !
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yya!! stickied

well its a good informative piece of information what did you expect. good work itsallme2003!

I disagree..
Your right.. a smile goes a long way.. and im sure that is all true.. but truth be told.. most people are on this website to talk to people and probably to search for people.. its hard to find the 'right person' in real life if your gay..
yerp.. you should have fun.. but you shouldnt stop looking..
to stop looking is like saying..
i know.. I want great GCSE results [or whgatever exam boards you all do]
so.. lets try not revising..
fact is.. you get out of life what you put in.. you shouldnt stop searching unless your calling quits or you found someone..

seriouslycant wrote:

QUOTE:
I disagree..
Your right.. a smile goes a long way.. and im sure that is all true.. but truth be told.. most people are on this website to talk to people and probably to search for people.. its hard to find the 'right person' in real life if your gay..
yerp.. you should have fun.. but you shouldnt stop looking..
to stop looking is like saying..
i know.. I want great GCSE results [or whgatever exam boards you all do]
so.. lets try not revising..
fact is.. you get out of life what you put in.. you shouldnt stop searching unless your calling quits or you found someone..

there's a difference between looking and looking though i think.

there's looking as in keeping an eye out for someone you think might be interesting

and then there's looking as in you're just desperate for a relationship and end up in the depths of despair if you dont find someone in a week- then you enter a vicious circle because no one finds a misery attractive.

and loads of people dont bother revising- i didnt revise for my A levels but still came out with 4 A's because im good at exams. likewise, its perfectly possible to find something when you're not looking for it.

I agree with Invidia. The original advice was... alright, but flawed. I could compare it to many computer security systems which on the front seem fine but are also flawed... but I won't.

But in closing though I will say that...

QUOTE:
"I want a boyfriend/girlfriend"

I want, does not get. =P