I've only had one boyfriend, and that's about as many as I can currently get... I live in an area where there aren't very many gays at all, to the point that you have to tell everyone you are, and hope to find someone, but everyone in town will know, because everyone knows everyone, and my parents'd find out. So I was wondering if anyone had advice on looking for someone, whether it was in real life, or even online? o.o

I live in a small island and I know what you mean by everyone known your business...

I found a guy online but it wasnt intentional I signed up for myspace and just added a load of randoms and well I happend to add him and then we spoke for months and eventually met up and we now are very much in love

Sounds good... well he lives at the very opposite end of the country as me. So internet relationships are good but not if you live so far away.

I didnt tell many people about him before I acutally met him because I knew that people on my island would just judge me but once I had met him everyone understood it was a real relationship.

But my advice to you would be not to just go looking for a relationship because they come when you least expect it.

Unfortunately, your age might be a hindrance. Even if you're lucky enough to meet someone online who lives relatively close by, you presumably can't drive outside of your small town without asking your parents to drive you (since you're only 15). That is, unless you meet someone older (16 or 17) who CAN drive and meet up with you... I can't really offer much advice. Just be sure not to stay there your whole life. Small towns suck (in my opinion).

well, i live in a relatively urban area(new jersey), and iam old enough to drink, and iam having trouble....i just dont know many gay ppl...

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