should i share my story?

there's this really really hot guy, dominic, who sits two seats away from me in physics, and i find him EXTREMELY attractive
of course, i told him i found him extremely attractive, at this point, my comming out to him was extremely vocal, unlike the regular "i like boys" that i told my friends, this was a "i like ... you"

point being, is that he hasnt completely shunned me, out of niceness, and he sort of makes fun of me, in a non-homophobic way, more "i have me, and you cant have it"

and i thought that was extremely cruel of him

but hes great all the same

You should probably give her some time, I think. It wasn't until I was fourteen that I realized I was actually into girls, anyhow. xP And who knows, she /could/ very well be, like you said. Good luck! ^^

Every single guy I've had a crush on in my entire life was straight. It's very depressing, but just the manliness that you see out of straight men is so attractive. Then all it takes is an odd glance or a smile at me and bam, I got a crush on em. This happened with one of the casino managers at the casino I work in. Oh boy...yeah that crush lead to some drama.

Luckily he isn't my boss directly.

Whoa there is this guy in my class from what i think we make a cute couple.
but the point is he's str8 and i'm not allowed to tell him (damn the my coördinator) man he's sooooooo cute! my friends say"just tell him if he says no you know that it won't work" i think thats cruel

ya<br /><br />Post edited by: 616_life, at: 2008/04/09 21:47

grr. i hate this too. its really hard...i used to have crushes on these two guys...uggh. of,course they were straight. but COME ON! they're hot! they dress it and sometimes act like it...well except one guy dnt talk much and thats like the cutest thing ever...and have u ever noticed? (in most cases) that the hot guys are straight [and/or taken] and the cute guys are gay or jux seem like it...especially when they're a bit nerdy. funny thing isnt it?

Where I live you're either a homophobe, a gay or a tolerent friend of a gay.

Nah thats not fair but very few boys in my year don't act like a tit when it comes to homosexuality. Ironicly its the metrosexuals who are the most homophobic. They ain't embracing the enfemminate's culture.

They're nicking it.

It's almost the opposite problem for me. I act as straight as any straight guy. More than the metros. But because of this, no gay guys ever flirt with me because they assume that I'm straight.

I have fallen for way too many straight guys and there are literally a BILLION gay boys at my school. 'tis the sad truth. Maybe if these friggin straight guys weren't cute talented funny and smart then I wouldn't fall for them so hard. I'll just hold my breath.

Maybe the gaydar program needs an update because it surely is malfunctioning for all of us.