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6 Months/Crash 7 Months, 2 Weeks ago  
hey my story..

i aint gonna bore you with piles of information..
im just looking for friends and some help
my bf just ended a 6 month relationship with me and its been really hard on me.. my emotions are controlling my life which is taking away from what i am doing. i would really enjoy it if i could get some help regarding this..
he says that we are on a break, yet everynight we do something.. he likes someone else yet he loves me..

we both live together.. and yes im 16 and living with my x-bf
i really wish their was a way that i could make up for my wrongs and get him back..

these were the happiest 6 months of my life and i ain't ready to let go..
i would really appreciate if i could get ur help or guiadnace..

sincerly,

Ryan
 
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Re:6 Months/Crash 7 Months, 2 Weeks ago  
As a contingency plan, have a look at some alternative accommodation, because living with him could get very difficult. Particularly if he does break up with you, then starts wanting to date other people.

Talk with him, find out what's wrong, and try to fix it. If that can't be done, go looking for that other accommodation.

And next time, don't fall in love
 
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Re:6 Months/Crash 7 Months, 2 Weeks ago  
It would be almost impossible to get over the emotions if you are still seeing him, talking to him, doing stuff with him everyday. Figure out what the two of you want or don't want... And it might be a good idea to get out of the house and find somewhere else if that's possible.... otherwise your emotions will likely continue to control you.
 
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Re:6 Months/Crash 7 Months, 1 Week ago  
Well, even if you just broke up, I can imagine how incredibly difficult it would be living around him as well. You mentioned you guys "do something" every night, as in sleeping together? That's what I took it as.

If he says he loves you.. and you still have feelings for him, maybe you could try to talk to him about it. If not, well.. then the "things" you mentioned really need to quit, It's also going to be incredibly difficult to get closure if you're living with him.
 
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Re:6 Months/Crash 7 Months, 1 Week ago  
hey.. so ya..

i recently spent a weekend in peterbourgh and it was tons of fun.. that is my x's hometown.. it was good times.. we really didnt fight or anything.. yet some things did go wrong..

however.. we are both comming to the idea of moving out and going back to our orginal homes and going to try the relationship again.. cause the first month when we were living away was our best month and we have agreeded that..

is their anything wrong about this choice that we are both willin to make.. as we would see less of each other.. yet in another sense we would have a healthier relationship and probably see each other twise as much!

yours truly..
 
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