Hello everybody here at the GYC and let me firstly give you my love!
Its not a BIG... BIG... problem, but I just want some thoughts on a current situation.

So basically, I like this guy at college, he's beautiful, sweet and generally a lovely, fun and odd guy, I have one of the biggest crushes on him, that I've probably ever had. =/

Is he Straight? Thats the question... I'm not sure if he is, and I hope that he's not. I ran a little campaign through my friends to find out and I got all sorts of answers back from them, but we rested on the situation of him being Bisexual, but I'm still unsure. He's flamboyant and charming, and he's generally thought to be Gay or Bisexual and even in phrases he's commented on certain things about guys, but he's such a joker which makes it hard to judge if he means it truthfully!

Well, anyway... my minds scrambled so don't expect this in any order. I've chosen to forget his sexual orientation and befriend him no matter what, my goal is however to gain a relationship with him, idealy... I just adore him so much and I have a feeling he knows... which... is good!

ANYWAY! GIEF ME YOUR THOUGHTS... that is if you have any, comments good and bad

Will

William,

Right: It is simple. NO ONE is only gay or straight. So if you want to date him, do so no matter his sexuality.

You know what? All you need to do is ask him out for a coffee: "Hey I was thinking we could go for lunch on Saturday?" If he is flamboyant I should imagine he wold be very happy you have asked.

If he acts nice around you as you do him... all may go well. And if not, you can be his friend. Here will not be a matter of sexuality, it is a matter of does he like you?

Good luck and ask him!!! Oh and tell me and the rest of us the result after!

Andy x

i had the same kinda deal, except highskool lol, anywho turns out he most definately wasnt gay/bi watever...or hasnt admitted it to himself *fingers crossed*, he's only jus becoming comfortable around me again...*sigh*

good luck