it's smart to but you don't have 2 lol. see the thing is if ur really "IN LOVE" with this person you / the partner would move there and live with you. but i like 2 stay away from them but the thing is u can always be a really close friend u can talk to them about almost anything w/e problem they are u have at least there someone 2 listen it's always nice..
not saying it's not smart but sometimes or some ppl do make it work by making an effert of moving that's all. but the thing is when u guys meet it would be a totally different story