ok i totally disagree (especially with the gross blow job guy) i would love the attention of being complimented and someone who comes on strong i think would be ok but who am i to say i mean i have 0 experience.

You know what they say! Two halves can't make a whole without a hole. Giggity-giggity-giggity-giggity-oo-ee-oo-ah-ah, ting-tang walla-walla bing-bang, oo-ee-oo-ah-ah, ting-tang walla-walla bing-bang!

thats true, some people seem to impatient for relationsips so layer iton thick with complments in the hope you'll date em ~.~

worst is when ppl say "i love you" after uve known them half an hour, well personally, i hate it. whats the point?

I agree with most of what was said in the first post. I've also got a little list of things that turn me off.

-Clingyness (Is that my boyfriend or my shadow?)

-Acting as though they simply have no existence without you; not allowing you time to hang with your own friends and demanding that they spend every minute of every day either with you, talking to you on the phone, or chatting with you on AIM/YIM/MSN. (This goes hand in hand with Clingyness)

-Talking alot but never listening (Talking is good, though)

-Sharing their problems, but blowing off yours when you share.

~Mike~<br /><br />Post edited by: FadedNight, at: 2007/04/24 04:35

Biggest turnoff... Men who can't take no for an answer. I hate having to take a man down and sit on him or tie him up just because he thinks he is the right man to &quot;cure&quot; me.

I don't mind a bit of clinging... but too much is bad.


I love a good listener, but someone who is all talk is not worth wastin time on..


Another turn off for me, is bragging.. Especially when what they are braggin about ain't true.

Actually, now that I think about it.. Not to sound rude, but men in general are kindof a turnoff for me.

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Actually, now that I think about it.. Not to sound rude, but men in general are kindof a turnoff for me.

Well... you are a lesbian. Shock horror, girls ain't that big a turn-on for us gays.

I guess thats true.. Just didn't want to sound too rude when I said it.

Another turnoff for me, is a severe lack of confidence... Being nervous is okay, but if you are afraid of whoever you are with, whether for talking, or otherwise... It kinda kills the mood.

When he takes back things he said.

turn offs for me are:

boring or akward silences
no offence but being pretty camp
someone who talks too much but it's about pointless things
contradicting themselves
always making excuses
someone with no goals in life
someone with little interests besides playing on an X-box or PS3 24/7!!!

Dirty nails! Argh! They're just a total no no!
Sure, its a small thing ( ) but its the small things that matter.
Dirty nails say dirty person! Clean nails say...
xx