Okay heres the thing. When i was young i'd always thought i was bi, as i started lookin at girls in a different way. And at 12 i came out as bi, and since then had one serious relaitionship with a gurl.

Now im 13 and in a relationship with a guy 2 yrs older than me, and he's not my type at all, but i liked him at first, now whenever i see him i have mixed feelings, i just feel like i still like him, but then the other half of me says end it now. It's so wierd. I freak out about it all the time.

But for a couple of weeks now, i just seem to have gone off guys.. i mean i still like them, but not as much as i did before. i just seem to feel really really attracted to girls, and i know i am bi, but im now getting worried about what i'm going to have to do. I haven't told my family yet either. I'm really freaking out.

If anyone can help. I will be so grateful.

Jade x<br><br>Post edited by: broken_angel_x, at: 2007/03/08 20:10

look talk to this guy about the way you feel about your relationship and see how he reacts, that'll prob be the best thing for you as he may be able to change his behavior.

Also if you are going off guys you may find they your not actually bi (I did, but well the other way around), just don't freak out about things, I mean theres plenty of time for that, your only 13 and hormones and stuff are working overtime... so calm down, talk things through with your bf, see if it can work out, and if it doesn't then its just else off your mind, it's no big deal, and the going off guys thing will eventually become obvious, just let it happen, and don't resist the change because you 'know' your bi

U mite just be one of these people who has to have a change every now and again, woteva is goin on, u need to let this lad know so's u can move on.

Hope that helps