Ok its now fact for all but 2 friends i havent had a chance to tell. I'm gay. But does that mean that I'm 'out of the closet' or am I still in hiding? Not everyone knoes in my family only my mum and dad do but not my brother or (for some reason the person I fear telling mose) my grandma. Nor does my school know with the eception of those ive told. So is there a difinitive 'out' or is it a state of mind here you can be yourself and not fear persicution? Or can you be both in and out 'the closet'?

Coming out is a process that never really ends. You'll find that you'll have to keep telling people in your life. New friends you make, people at work, people at school. It just doesn't end.

I think iit is your sexuality and thus should be expressed as such! So when you feel out, then you're but if you still feel caged and not free thne you're not out and comfortable with yourself especially if you need others peoples approval ie Grandmama and others.

Its all on you, are you comfortable with "an_human_equation"?????

I think iit is your sexuality and thus should be expressed as such! So when you feel out, then you're but if you still feel caged and not free thne you're not out and comfortable with yourself especially if you need others peoples approval ie Grandmama and others.

Its all on you, are you comfortable with "an_human_equation"?????

a) the name is Tim and b) i dont feel uncomphortable or in surch of approval if they have a problem its their problem, not mine. fact is im a person that avoids conflict but i have the underlieing curiosity to know how people react to certin situations.