It really depends on the day for me: I'm genderqueer, but normally, I come across feminine, but when I get into an actual relationship [not necessarily a romantic one], I begin more masculine. I prefer to date feminine people, too, and I prefer to be masculine. I only crossdress when I know I can get away with it. If my parents saw me in guy's clothes, they'd probably through a fit xD
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