I'm not, but I'm 19 and only lost it last year. For the longest time I was a virgin and didn't care, didn't think too much about it, didn't get hung up on it, because it's nothing major and like everyone who's anyone says, you don't need to rush into these things. It's only sex and yeah sex is sex but it's great for the first time when you're comfortable and, like many people say, when you're with someone you love.
My first time wasn't with someone I loved, but it was with someone I was comfortable with. He was 8 years older, so 26, and it was 2 weeks before I was going to go off to University, but we had been talking a lot and gotten together a few times doing lesser things, and the times it happened (we do have 2 cherries after all, 2 consecutive evenings for me it was, top then bottom) it was taken slow with lots of communication, and I was completely sober and knew what I was doing, so even though I wasn't in love, or even in a proper relationship because I was leaving in a week or so, for me it was a really good way of doing it.
My point is don't throw yourself into any situation that turns up, but if when one turns up it isn't with someome you love and have been with for a while then that's ok too, it's up to you and you should think at the time 'am I ready for this?'. Not everyone has the fairytale losing of the virginity to their knight in shining armour, sometimes it's good just to have that experience with someone who is ultimately a friend, just as long as you're comfortable and know what you're doing. I've never done anything sexual that I regret doing.
At the moment I'm with another guy, and I do love him, but I don't regret doing it for the first time when I did and not waiting for someone I loved. I'm still in touch with the guy I lost it to and we're good friends. And the boyfriend doesn't mind, not too much anyway.
Good luck everyone, from an ex-'ok with being a virgin' virgin, who just got lucky.
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<br /><br />Post edited by: Manz, at: 2008/03/20 00:21
its quite depressing. im actually looking for that. i want to be with a guy just to see what it's like... is that too much to ask? am i hoping for too much?
