i persionly like bein gay an i get quite a good feelin in me when i say im gay 2 myself 4 some reason (even though im bi(but mor leaned 2 men lol))
but i was jus wondering if n e 1 doesnt like being gay, obviosly like most ppl i have moments when im pissed off and hate it but who doesnt lol

Hhmmm, i used to say to myself, If there was a pill that would make me straight i would take it without hesitation.
Now i've had a relationship and all the satisfaction within it lol, I'm fine with who i am and i don't think i'd change for anything or anyone.
When your Bi i look at that as a positive as you get pleasure from both male and female lol.
But to answer the queston, i used to hate being how i am.
Now i'm happy with it <br /><br />Post edited by: SimplyGuy, at: 2008/01/30 05:04

boarder25 wrote:

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i persionly like bein gay an i get quite a good feelin in me when i say im gay 2 myself 4 some reason

I get a good feeling when I say it to myself too... I guess it's because I think back to about 3 or 4 years ago, when I wouldn't have DREAMT of saying it to anyone, and now it's simply not a problem - I've come that far, it's something we should all be proud of.

I'd love to have me own biological children, but nature is against me on that... other than that, I'm happy as can be

I think it's very common to hate being gay when you first start to realize it. You're scared and uneducated about it. But once you start to search and learn about your sexuality, you realize that there is nothing wrong with it, in fact you should be happy about it! Most people have that stretch where they hate being gay, but after that it's sweet livin'

I got that &quot;hate&quot; feeling when I locked myself in the closet.. all I could think of are only negative stuffs about being gay (eg. &quot;oh god my mom would have a breakdown because I cannot have her grandchildren now!! I'm so deadd&quot. It seems that when I locked who I am inside of myself, I had no choice but to be angry. Since there's no one for me to point my anger at, the only choice left is to be angry at myself. Now that my best friends know, I only enjoy being gay and be very positive about myself. I'm happy with who I am and nothing's gonna change that

I hate a lot of things. I don't 'actively' hate being gay, because it's futile and a waste of my hate, when there's so many other things to hate these days.

Would I choose to be gay? Not in a million years.

I dont hate to be gay (well half gay) but theres still times when i feel sort of sad about it all and slightly ashamed. I know i shouldn't be but it still gets to me. If i had a gf i wouldn't hold her hand in public because i'd be worried what people would think. I should really stop feeling ashamed etc because tbh i would love to hold a gf's hand and be proud to do so. Hopefully one day i will be able to

No, I've got to say that i'm kinda happy to be gay even if it's not easy everyday ! It's good to know that we are a &quot;rare species&quot; !

When I first realized it and was still accepting it, I really did hate it. But now I dont...but I dont love it either. Its just like--umm ok

WHy would I hate being gay? (well, half really, but I tend to lean more towards guys) It is the best feeling of my life, knowing that I can check out guys and like it. AND the upside of being bi is that you really have twice the amount of choices for a potential partner. But I can't imagine a life where I would pass up an oportunity to check out a guy in a locker room or in the hallways. It is THE best <br /><br />Post edited by: Ofitc, at: 2008/02/02 07:10