nath_aus wrote:

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haha, ur all gunna hate me for this but..
i dont think ur born with it.
i agree with the perons who said ur attraction is involuntary, but ur actions in relation to ur feelings are total choice.
i think its also the environment ur brought up in and ur personality.
i mean im CHOOSING to accept the attraction to both sexes and say im bi, but that because my peronsality is telling me that i am who i am and my parents have always said be urself....
even if my dad is a massive homophobe
lol

Well said.

I'm not sure if you are necessarily born with it, but I do know, at least in my case, that it was not a choice.

I guess for a lot of people, it was never a choice. And I do get flustered when people think it is. Carrying out homosexual acts is debatable as a "choice," or at least we should define what that means. If you want to dress up like a flower and parade down the street, that's totally fine. But if you want a relationship of trust and love, then we all have the same 'options' as heterosexual people.

I think the Nature/Nurture debate should be explored more, because both hold little water in arguments, but it's the only two we really have to flock to. I think everyone can connect the dots throughout their life to attribute their homosexuality.

It in the genes, your born with it, which is scary because they're searching for a gay gene and I can see the pope eventually saying that being gay is still wrong, but altering genes so your not gay is completely fine, as it's not like your messing with gods choices

ok this is what i think


being gay or straight is not chioce.

it is genes

in some families you will fin that most of the family is gayin some you will fuind that only one is but its down to genes


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I'll tell you this. It is by birth. No one knows their gay,straight, or bi-sexual untill they become sexually active. I believe that 1 out of 30 infants born are gay. but that's just an estimation.

I had no strong sexual feelings until fifth grade when i was at a friends house and he showed me some porn which had men and women. I was very attracted to the women but by grade six i was thinking about the man. there is a part of the brain that in homosexual men it is similar to a straight womans. Also i heard that once a woman has a male child her body blocks against further male childeren because of the hormones so it is more likely that the youngest male to be gay.

Your born gay, its proven, even If I had a chioce I'd still choose to be gayPluss I'm the first born son and Im gay and the statistic is that 1 out 7 men or women are gay just wanted to fix the statistics and all-no hard feelings I have no intention of pissing anybody of juxt want to throw this stuff out there to make sure the people get it good enough to set their friends straight cause my best friend did the same thing.

i dont think its choice
you are born with it
your born with instincts and attractions
its just our attractions mean we are either
gay - bi - straight
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I agree w/ u all. For me, definitely, I was born w/ it. I remember being n elementary school, being attracted to both guys and girls. I told the guys (of course), but let the female adoration linger n the back of my mind.