Why I think he is gay

i'm wondering if this kid i've known for a while (i have wanted to get with him for so long) is gay. here is why

we have slept in the same bed before, when we were playing around (tackling eachother) before you know it we're hugging and rolling around on the ground, and another time are heads kept going down there, when i looked at him he pretended to kiss me, sometimes are legs drift together and touch and stay like that for a while, and he always wants me to touch his arms and what not.

why i think he isn't
once, i moved over closer to him and he said something like "not so close, im not gay"
then later he casually said "you and your sister probably fight over guys"
what do you think? i think that is just a cover up

so what do you think, is he gay or not? leave a post or PM please. thanks!
and noone say "just ask" because that DOES NOT work

lol finally someone admits that askin just doesnt cut it sometimes. But as for your problem, i couldnt tell you whether hes gay or not but he def sounds curious. I may just be settin u up for harder times but you only live once, i say just decide to make a move. Nothin too big like tryin to catch him when he drops the soap but somethin subtle. Good luck

while i hate to say this, there IS one way to find out, and that's by way of alcohol.

Set a trap fopr him somehow...

i completely dissagree with EVERYONE here. Traps would make u deceitful, alcohol would make u manipulative, and there are multiple ways to find out.... i have the same problem... except with some MAJOR differences... this guy, is the hottest guy on the face of the planet in my eyes (but no one else thinks so) i think hes hotter than ever celebrity on the planet! Another thing, my guy ACTS gay in every thing he does (his best friends think hes gay). But even if he was gay, he'd be WAY out of my league, like most of you guys. So i just erase all possiblities... if hes gay, woot woot, good for him... im still not gonna be able to be with him...

another thing, he had his arms around me before, and my chest felt warm... i felt happier than ever before... yeah... it sux to be in love with a 13 y/o straight guy lmao


i say,ask him, if he says no, then believe hes not. The least u can do as a friend is believe him, even if u know hes lying.

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another thing, he had his arms around me before, and my chest felt warm... i felt happier than ever before... yeah... it sux to be in love with a 13 y/o straight guy lmao

Cookieace, one piece of advice - don't try anything, it won't work.
Remain buddies, but get out of your head any idea that anything may happen,

Sorry for being so blunt, but that's how it is. He may occupy every thought you have, therefore keep it in your head but not to the point of obsession (unless you're already there in which case GET OUT ASAP).

i think he's gay just realy deep in the closet about it so make very slight moves nothing realy forword just little moves

Sorry double post<br /><br />Post edited by: funkeymunkey813, at: 2007/12/13 13:52

KK lol I have had the same problem... but yours is a tad different...
So!
#1 he is either a really uber gay straight
or
#2 in the closet... like deep in the closet... like narnia deep lol!

I vote #2

I think that him saying not to close, Im not gay is a nervousness he feels - because he thinks you are discovering his &quot;secret&quot; of him being gay, he tells you he isnt, thinking he can lead you astray...

so I think he is gay. The definite tell tale is the way he talks about girls... ask him about girls he thinks are hot... it he says that they are pretty or good looking or gorgeous or beautiful - take it as &quot;IM GAY&quot;
lol
that is my opinion... lol