I was wondering, does anyone who is gay or lesbain, or bisexual (but, perfer being with same sex) ever wish on having their own child. Well I'm Bisexual, but I really perfer being with a guy, I can see me being with a guy for the rest of my life. In fact, I want to have kids, but I want my own kids, because I want them to have my genes, my emotions, and parts from me. ( I would also want them to have the same genes as the other parent, because I would want them to have part of the person who I've fallen in love with) So, mostly I imagine myself in the future, with a girl that I fall in love with, and have kids with, because two males can't possibly have their own kids. I was wondering, if anyone have something similar about having their own kids? I'll really appreciate seeing it in other people's point of view.

P.S. Sometimes I do think of just adopting a child, that I could race.

Hello Peruano!

When I'm older and when I meet an ideal partner, I do eventually want children! To me, its got nothing to do with genes, I want to raise a kid, the satisfaction of bringing happiness to my partner and a child is amazing! So I guess... I really doesn't matter for me, I'm going to adopt most likely.

Well, thats my input!

Will x

I do want kids one day and I want my own kids. I, honestly, have great genes. I come from a very smart, attractive, friendly and also intuitive family and I want my kinds to have that too, but I also want my kinds to have the genes of the woman that is so special and amazing to me that I'll fall in love, and this has been bothering me for a while. I know I'm really young but I still want to know that I can have my own biological kids while sharing my genes with the woman I love for our kids to have the best of both of us, and sadly, I can't. Of course the way I raise them will give them a special part of me that no genes could ever give, but still.. I do wish I could have my own kids with the woman of my dreams.

Being a parent is a very rewarding experience, admittedly.. I missed out on a lot of my son's life simply by not knowing he was there. That is a long story in itself, and not really important right now.

I spent his seventh birthday with him. made it as special as I could since it was our frst one.. hopefully with many more to come.

I do want more kids later, but for now, I hardly have the energy to keep up with the one I have.

Maybe I'm just a heartless bastard, but I SERIOUSLY doubt i have will (or even want to) have a kid(s). I wouldn't have to patience to put up with all their crap (both literally and figuratively), and I'd rather live my life to the fullest rather than having to support another person who would otherwise be completely helpless. Not to mention, it takes two to make a &quot;family&quot; (i really dislike that word ) lol...on the other hand, another gay guy with a kid would really piss off some conservatives <br /><br />Post edited by: YouDontKnowMe123, at: 2007/09/30 14:50

Well yer, I love kids. And I want my own kids, but I want my kid to be that of my boy's too...because I can't do that, I'd rather adopt. Its either the child of both of us, or a child which has no genetic ties to either of us but who we can both love.

I'm with Palachinov on that one. I've wanted to raise kids for quite a while, and while I would prefer to have a child with the genes of both myself and my partner, that I can raise from birth, I would want to adopt if it proved impossible. But I do know that I want kids eventually... I don't like how enough people raise their children, I want to give it a shot and see if I can do better. Make my kid go beat up the kids of those homophobes. haha. But I jk... maybe

The only problem with me personally about adoption isn't that they don't get my genes, it's that I can't have total control of them while they're in the womb. That sounds stupid, but I have heard so many things about the correct way to be pregnant with a kid, what to eat, etc. I would hate to adopt a kid who's mother basically starved them and the kid will eventually end up with an IQ of 80 or something.

Other then that, that would be my only problem with adoption

I sometimes consider of askin a girl, (dat I'm realli close to) to give birth twice, using mii genes then mii partner's, so I can have still have children wit mii genes n mii partner's n som1 I'm close to. But I kind of consider it rude or a realli big favor.

~Christian

P.S. By the way, has anyone ever heard of this process? or/and has anyone ever considered it as well?

Thank u everyone for showing your point of views.

I totally agree wit u Prettyful.Rainbow, dat'z exactly how I feel, n I'm pretty young myself. I would also want mii kidz to continue mii raise n everything of mi background (mii family tree), I don't want it to just end here, with me.

Thank you for sharing dat story, Dan69!