I'm Bisexual, and I'm a pretty Big Girl.

I always get this stupid question, "Is The Reason Why Your Bisexual Is Because Your Big?"

To Me, I was born this way. I found myself when I was eight years old, and I had my first girlfriend at eight, and my first boyfriend at nine.

I wasn't always big, it was around eleven when I hit a major depression. I was homesick from Germany, and I started to eat my sorrow away. I got tons of theraby though after that. And I'm still struggling to get this weight off of me.

I can't really understand why this question pops on me at times. It's as people think I'm so desperate to get laid that I'll take on any sex. No...Trust Me NO!!!!!

This is question I want to see that anyone else has some answers for me. Because I'm totally lost. Are people really that narrow minded to think that?

Kiarra

Eh, straight people seem to be so ignorant about sexuality. Like it's a striaght line, and there's this book of rules everyone abides by. I ignore people like that...A lot of my friends are like that, good christian girls. I suggested the idea of having more than one partner to one and she didn't talk to me for the rest of the day..sigh..

OK - im a gay guy - and i have a healthy layer of insulation - its something to cuddle - i hate boney thin people - its sooo uncomfortable - my best friend's nice and well rounded, and its really nice to sit talking in a cuddle! ok, so we get some funny looks, but its comfortable!

Plus, why should we all conform to the stereotype that gay people (men especially) are all insecure and obsessed with how they look! I personally dont like stereotypes cos theyre just used to ridicule us - why should i conform to this one!

Also - "any guy who thinks that my body's more important than my brain doesnt deserve me!" Thats my motto! And i think its a damned prudent one at that!

My man has a nice comfy belly to snuggle on

I am quite skinny, but not because I want to be.. I mean, yea it is somewhat my fault because I am really into martial arts (and other "excersize" but that is not the point here!) but, I also was born with a fast metabolism.. haven't gained or lost any weight since fourteen.

People tend to be very narrow minded about these things.. guys more often than girls sadly. "Gay people know fashion!" "All gay people want to have orgies!" those are just a couple of the generalizations that people make, not just straight people either, even some gay people think these. I know a little about fashion, but only nough that I can go to a nice restaurant or club without betting stared at because of colors that don't match or whatever... and welll.. Orgies make for interesting fantasies, but those are staying in my head where they belong. Most of the time I imagine them it involves 3 copies of my man doing stuff...

No you do not have to be skinny to be gay!

Being gay has nothing what so ever to do with the size or appearance of a person. When I read or hear thins like that is makes me so mad, it is the most stereotypical thing to say - it is like saying blonds are stupid or Canadian live in igloo’s, and just to let you know we do not live in igloo’s. I’m not skinny but I’m not fat either, I would consider myself a little bit above average size, and I am bi. The thing that pisses me off the most is when I hear a gay person say that only skinny or good looking people can be gay, it makes me wanna bitch slap there f***ing face off. There are so many people in the world who are fat and ugly and they gay.

Anyways long story short you can be fat, thin, black, white, hot, or ugly, and still be gay. If you have ever heard of bears or chubs then you would know that.

* I do not mean bears the animals.

No you do not have to be skinny to be gay!

Being gay has nothing what so ever to do with the size or appearance of a person. When I read or hear thins like that is makes me so mad, it is the most stereotypical thing to say - it is like saying blonds are stupid or Canadian live in igloo’s, and just to let you know we do not live in igloo’s. I’m not skinny but I’m not fat either, I would consider myself a little bit above average size, and I am bi. The thing that pisses me off the most is when I hear a gay person say that only skinny or good looking people can be gay, it makes me wanna bitch slap there f***ing face off. There are so many people in the world who are fat and ugly and they gay.

Anyways long story short you can be fat, thin, black, white, hot, or ugly, and still be gay. If you have ever heard of bears or chubs then you would know that.

* I do not mean bears the animals.

Lol I dont have to be skinny to be gay thats for fucking sure.

But all the gays i know personally are like sticks. And generally good looking. Which is annoying.

So i do get the feeling im a bit out of place...

duuuuuuble posssst<br /><br />Post edited by: Rachavaara, at: 2007/07/26 10:30

Well, I feel like that. But then again I like being slim so I watch what I eat, although if I end up eating too much one day I end up being angry with myself =/

I don't wanan go down the whole shoving your fingers down your throat road hahaha

Not exactly sure how to phrase my reply.
It isn't exactly in the requirements but I think its a bit frowned upon.
I'm not sure.
You shouldn't ask the person who think he's 88 and weighs 456 pounds