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Bad Blood: Gay Men Not Allowed to Give Blood Print E-mail
Written by Rob Drummer   
Friday, 07 April 2006

Got blood? ..No Thanks!You may or may not be aware that as a gay man you are unable to donate blood in America, the United Kingdom and in fact most Western countries; with the exception of parts of Spain and Switzerland. However, perhaps you have received a leaflet imploring you to donate your blood and ease the global shortage in blood supplies? You may also have seriously considered going along to the next local blood drive and feeling part of society by gladly donating? Unfortunately though for all gay men who have had sex with another man since 1977 they are banned from donating blood for the entirety of their life.

The UK Blood Transfusion and Tissue Transplantation Service publishes the guidelines for blood donation on their website and advocates their use of selection criteria to secure the safety of the national blood supply. In their efforts to minimise the risk of infecting receivers of donated blood with blood borne viruses they ban all gay men from donating blood.


 ‘It is specific behaviours, rather than being gay, which places gay men at increased risk of HIV infection. Safer sex will keep most gay men free from infection, however research shows that allowing gay men as a group to donate blood would increase the risk of HIV infected blood entering the blood supply.’


It is not hard to view the guidelines above with contempt, especially as they represent a generalisation of gay sexual behaviours. The legislation seems based on historic attitudes in existence since the branding of Aids as the “gay virus” in the 1980’s. Figures show that Aids is an increasing concern amongst heterosexual couples and it should no longer be perceived as a matter that solely affects gay individuals. The very fact that the ban is considered justifiable globally simply confirms the widespread injustice and prejudice still in existence surrounding homosexuality. However, if we are ever to achieve the goal of tolerance and respect in society we must question the existence of such an intolerant and uneducated perspective on homosexuality.

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Most shocking of all is the assumption that heterosexual individuals are lower risk in infecting blood. For example, a straight man that sleeps with a different woman every night and does not use a condom would never be disqualified from donating blood. However, a gay man in a monogamous relationship practicing safe sex for the past thirty years would never be allowed to donate. This absurd assumption that to be gay means to be sexually irresponsible is deeply concerning especially for an impressionable gay youth. Are we not constantly reminded that to practice safe sex dramatically removes the risk of catching Aids and other Sexually Transmitted Infections? If safe sex is so glorified then why is it not acceptable as a gay man to defend your right to donate blood? Essentially we are advised to wear a condom when engaging in sexual activity, so as long as gay men follow this rule why is it not enough to convince the National Blood Transfusion Service of our donation eligibility?

To be young and gay can be daunting, especially as widespread social injustice promotes the perspective that there is something wrong with being gay. Forever seeking social acceptance, gay youths should never be made to feel that they are denied equal rights from their straight contemporaries. To be denied the right to donate blood promotes the attitude that to be gay is to be a threat to society. The national blood service do of course need to exercise care when transfusing blood, and ensure that all donated blood is rigorously tested for any blood borne viruses. Surely then this serves as a safety net for detecting “threatening” blood? Surely, if a gay man were to be HIV negative then his blood would be acceptable for transfusion? Unfortunately this is not the case as it is believe that to allow gay men to donate at all regardless of blood testing would dramatically increase the threat of infection spreading.

Essentially then, this obvious discrimination against gay men, regardless of their HIV status is an example of how although small advances are made in promoting acceptance of homosexuality, wider society continues to practice its prejudices. The regulations are not going unchallenged though and there have been many demonstrations over recent months on both sides of the Atlantic. The LGBT Society of Edinburgh University held a protest outside a blood drive at the beginning of March. Tom French, the society’s campaign leader stated “HIV/AIDS is not a gay disease. Many gay people live in monogamous relationships and are at no greater risk of sexually transmitted infections than anyone else”. The issue of “bad blood” is being challenged from younger members of the gay community and they are determined not to let the regulations exist without dispute.

There is however, some progress in America, with the American Red Cross rethinking its guidelines banning gay men from donating. In a recent article, a spokesperson said “providing the person has not had sex for a year, gay blood donations should be accepted.” The Red Cross is responsible for collecting 45% of America’s blood donation supply, and finds it hard to keep up with this demand. The organisation made $2.1 billion from selling blood and blood products in the US last year, which it spends on its charitable and aid relief missions. Perhaps then there is a financial motive for increasing the potential for blood donations, with gay men seen as an opportunity to fill the gap between supply and demand? To be gay is not to be socially threatening, and we should not allow ourselves to be branded as transmitters of disease, our blood is not bad and we should not accept such generalisations of minority gay sexual behaviours.

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01-04-2008 09:50
My friends were planning to go to donate blood one day a few weeks back, but when I found out about this rule, I was dead set against it. 
 
I just can't believe that the Health Service, who are always badgering people to donate blood because there isn't enough in the blood banks, would discriminate against a huge section of society. 
 
What's the problem with screening each batch of blood for HIV or STIs? If there is an infection in the blood, then fair enough. But making an assumption that all gay people are promiscuous is just disgusting. 
 
At least give us a chance to save a life.
Registered
27-11-2007 13:30
are we mad, this is a form of discrimination which if im honest i was offended when i read this. i am a young gay guy and have given blood on several occations and if i was suddenly told i couldn't do this because of who i MIGHT sleep with then i'd rather stick that needle of theirs somwhere where of us would like to see. most of us have been to pride so i think next year we should invite those biggots and all offer to give a pint, they go on about how the shortage is well perhaps we can do somthing about it. we cant strickly have kids so maybe we can help save lives.
Registered
05-12-2006 10:57
I gave life and they can't say a thing
I just recently gave blood at one of our school blood mobiles and I just aswered no to the question that I had any sexual contact with men. That simple. The only reason that I done this, was because I was sure that I am disease free, considering after my first sexual encounter, I went and got tested the next day and hadn't had sex since then, I think the whole thing is a string of BS...and next they will make it so I can't work in the profession that I want, just because I am bi.
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Hammydude744
04-12-2006 04:42
What gets me...
The thing that gets me is that if you have had ORAL sex as a man then you cannot give blood! 
 
I have had oral sex with a man but not anal, but I still give blood. They test EVERY batch for HIV so if I have got it, then they will let me know. Just like they will let a straight man or woman know. It is not as if they only test the odd pouch of blood. All blood is tested for common diseases so worrying about AIDS/HIV getting into the blood donation system is no more concerning than it is now. I boycotted the donation at University (in Exeter) when I was there but I feel that doing that could mean that someone somewhere loses their life, so I still donate on a regular basis regardless of what the book says. 
 
I think saving a life is better than homophobia. So I do it.
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holtmeister
11-10-2006 05:02
Welll
I think there doing this because the first HIV positive man was indeed gay. But still its not like the government keeps a list of people who are gay. So if you want to donate blood make sure your dont have a disease and just do not tell them when you donate. hee hee hee... ;)
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JoshJ
11-10-2006 04:58
Well
I think they are doing this just because the first HIV positive man was indeed gay. But hey its not like the government keeps a list of people who are gay, so if you want to donate blood and your 18 I dont see what is going to stop you. hee hee hee...
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JoshJ
08-10-2006 17:55
Rarety
I think what makes it even sweeter is that i have one of the rearest blood groups, shared by only 7% of the population and they are running low on it, yet they can still turn me away from giving blood! :roll  
 
Wheres the sense in that??? :?  
 
Anyway, 
 
Cyaz 
 
Andy 
x-x ;)
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djandy14
22-09-2006 09:13
ridiculous
it truly makes no sense that in such advanced societies as we have, sexually active gay/bi men are barred from donating blood. Canadian Blood Services has the same policy here of permanently deferring males who've had sex with men since 1977. i wasn't aware of it prior to going to donate, so i was really quite crushed and disappointed in learning this. here i thought i was doing something good, but no, they don't want it. it is stupid to assume all gay/bi men are going to taint the blood supplies with HIV/AIDS. in Canada, all donated blood i believe is screened for it anyways.  
with the apparent shortages of blood, plasmas, marrow, and other donations collected by the Blood Services, it's foolish that they would automatically cut out a large portion of the otherwise eligible population. one of my friends has the rarest blood type, but since he's gay, he can't donate now.  
i was told once that the Blood Services have free range to make their own rules, but i'm certain it will show up at the human rights tribunals.. :roll
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pounce87
16-09-2006 02:51
ridiculous
I rekon u should be able to give blood, with a recipiants permission, fight for your rights, and stop homophobia! Kill 2 birds with one stone! (well, save one of them)
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forrbidenlover
12-09-2006 17:46
Well in my opinion just laugh........
Well i say screw 'em if and when there is no-one else that will give blood only us gay men they will come crawling and begging us for the blood and when they do i will be there laughing and saying HELL NO they had the opportunity to let us help and they shoved it to one side so when they do need our help we shove them to one side simple... :grin
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alexjames
22-08-2006 06:24
UH NOT FAIR...
okay, THAT IS COMPLETELY UNFAIR, Although I live in Canada where that issue has not arised yet I still believe it isn't fair. I mean anyone could have HIV just because us gay males are more likely to get it doesn't mean we all have it, I MEAN COME ON!!! All are created equal, sadly though that is not how we are treated. I think that society these days have become too worried with the little things. :eek I mean I do agree with Lookeypoos, I think our blood is just as equal as any other straight man. I guess life just isn't fair and I am not sure we will ever be seen as equal to another straight man in the public eyes. :cry  
 
WRITTEN BY ~~Mykey~~ :sigh
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Plastic.jock
18-08-2006 19:21
UH NOT FAIR...
I don't understand the whole 1977 thing. What happened @ this time. But, yeah... I think that just because of the stereotypes against gays, ie promiscuity, doesn't make the medical system fair. It seems really stupid to deny sumone life on account of "imperfect" blood, or w/e.
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SexFiend1990
18-08-2006 16:33
Discrimination
not all gay men have unsafe sex, not all gay men have HIV pos, Our blood is just as pure as the next straight man, they complain about a shortage, but why ban some of the population wen that amount could help stop the shortage, some countries really need to consider changing laws about homosexuality. so what if two men like each other, 2 women like each other, it doesnt mean we cant give blood. :(
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Lukeypoos
10-08-2006 11:12
Discrimination
OH MY GOD... this stupid rule pisses me off sssooooo much...why should it matter if we're gay or not, seriously. the blood gets tested for infectionsd/diseases anyway. and besides, gay guys arent the only ones who hav hiv, EVERYONE that is sexualy active can get it... if you've got HIV be responsible and dont donate, but if you dont, just donate and dont tell them. but we all must be consuled that when the blood crisis gets bad the blood banks will allow us to give blood. i dont hav hiv so i can, and i walk pass the van at uni every week, but i wont on principle... i also faint, but if it wasnt for that i wont donate on principle :(
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brissyboy87
03-08-2006 01:25
Discrimination
How could Drsack have been giving blood for 6 years? You have to be 18 to give blood, and the GYC doesn't allow anyone over 21 to join... right?
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Anonymous_Gay
03-07-2006 20:12
Is It Any Wonder?
I'm reading this, and admittedly my best mate an I were just discussing this very topic. In South Africa there is no law against homosexual blood donations, but the SANBS (South Africa National Blood Service) are continuously qriting up articles in thier little magazines wherein there veermently protest to us giving blood.  
My point is this: if we all feel so strongly about it, then think: this is all tantamount to hate speech. Do something about it :grin i.e. call a lawyer. If a straight person can sue someone for calling him gay, the sure as hell we can sue the National Blood Service(s) for denying us the right in assisting with the life saving process.  
 
P.S. I have been a blood donor for 6 years now,and they mustn't dare deny me the right.  
 
DrSack 8)
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drsack
27-06-2006 09:18
does it matter
there not gona know if you are gay or not and how many of us are from 1977 i mean really i dont see i reason to complain i mean yah its wrong but who cares they shur dont so why complain they cant stop you from giving blood becaus they test the blood anyway and they get ride of it if its bad or they use it for tests so i dont c what the big deal is
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puppyboy
27-06-2006 09:15
does it really make a diffrence
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puppyboy
15-06-2006 05:41
does it really make a diffrence
that is just unfair it doesn't matter ur sexuality. its blood that can help others live. theres nothing wrong with our blood just because our sexual preference are different that doesn't change anything that just unfair we r not the ones loosing its them they don't want it fine but they should think that over :upset :(
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katy
13-06-2006 23:25
...
i agree with jessi on the last coment about how do they actually no if u r gay bi str8 or lezbian it is not like u walk in and the first thing is are you gay and u get some gay guys that look so str8 so how is it possible for them 2 tell
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jon12371
12-06-2006 18:27
How dumb
My question is, how are they going to know your sexual practices and preferences? It seems rediculous to use such an outdated stereotype to block potential donors when the blood is so badly needed. I assume they take "lesbian blood," no? The whole idea of not allowing gay or bisexual men to donate blood is stupid, useless, discriminatory, and ignorant.
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jessi4788
12-06-2006 08:25
It's different in Australia
It's funny, I live in Australia and they don't have that law anymore, because HIV and AIDS keeps popping up in heterosexual men and women. Once they've taken blood from you, there is an extremely simple test they put the blood through to see whether or not you have any blood-carried diseases, including HIV and AIDS. 
 
The only reason they let that law pass in the first place was because back then hardly anything was known about these particular diseases. All they have to do nowadays is look at the blood under a microscope, and that's it! 
 
Anyway, donated blood goes through so many tests before it is actually given to a patient, that it would be impossible for them to miss it. I plan to donate blood once I'm old enough. I'm B-, the second-rarest blood type. 
 
So if you really want to donate blood, just come down to Australia! :grin
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Blingie
08-06-2006 07:13
WTF?
Ok, everywhere I look there are people demanding, in the most polite way possible of course, everyone to give blood. If they're going to try to select who can and who can't donate, then they need to stop acting so desperate. Also, everyone is at risk of contracting HIV. You don't even have to have sex to get it. You can get it from your mother through birth for crying out loud. How can they discriminate gay men and try to use this as an excuse? Ok, too mad at the government and their shinanigans, again.
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Leona
01-06-2006 07:12
Meh
Meh they are the ones loosing out not us...We just get to keep twice as many blood cells while they can give it away to a freezer then some old/sick person...
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Keroku
01-06-2006 02:21
Wrong Wrong Wrong
This is totally wrong! if people no matter what sexuality they are have clean blood then why shouldnt we be able to give it! its totally not fair! :upset
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Leelaleelee
28-05-2006 21:58
Red cross USA email
it is This e-mail address is being protected from spam bots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it send them a few emails. I sent them one where I was quite pissed actually. So maybe enough things will make em realize. Plus I do not see anything mentioned on homosexual females on the USA red cross site. so this is quite hypocrytical.
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Keroku
28-05-2006 21:38
@edwards1989
Great idea for the petition but I doubt an online one will have much effect. We'd need to be out there in the world petitioning. We would actually need the media to assist us because until the media start getting things out in the open the government will do squat. But I do agree with you otherwise.
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Keroku
28-05-2006 21:18
Bull
This Has allways wound me up if they do ther jobs right and screen all the blood corectly whats the problem. Plus my friend never uses a jonny with all the girls he has ad he donates, yet as a 17 year old with one male partner who always has safe sex am not allowed i feel discriminated aginest.
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aria51
28-05-2006 15:21
Why?
Hi,  
If you ask me this is the most ridiculous thing that ive ever heard. I mean what if 3% of gay men had the rarest blood type and it was desperately needed to save lives. Would they deny someone another chance to live just because the only donors available are gay? 
 
Personally i think that we should start up a worldwide online petition to give to every blood transfusion country who denies us this right. 
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edwards1989
28-05-2006 01:54
What if?
What makes them think we are going to donate blood and just come straight out "Oh yeah I'm gay watch out for HIV as we are the only ones who have it so now we have contaminated the world with our blood" pathetic if you ask me. Plus I was taught that everyone has the same chances of catching HIV as we do. I believe this is a religious thing. I was told a religious group within the boundaries of christianity, believe that God is punishing people with AIDs for homosexuals being alive...BULL
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Keroku
27-05-2006 16:41
Well something has to be done!
I have just emailed the Blood Tranfusion Service asking them for their explaination for this blatent discrimination against homosexuals. Next their be denying black or asian blood, oh and i know why not stop women from voting, the cheek of it!! It ask each one of you to do the same as me and continually email them, lets get them thinking about their decision again. Thx guys, ;)
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djandy14
26-05-2006 21:09
BLOOD DONATION
Hi there, 
 
Firstly I would like to thank you for writing this artice. A lot of noise has been made about this subject in recent months but the concern shown at the time seems to be fading away, where I think this issue should be on the front page of the newspaper every day until things change! So thanks for shedding some more light on the matter! 
 
This is a subject I take very seriousley, I find it appauling that, were I be in a position to help someone who is dying by providing a little of my blood for their transfusion, I would be refused! Does this rule apply to organ donation and bone marrow also? 
 
I cannot beleive that a spokesperson for the American Red Cross actually said “gay blood” in a statement about this travesty of justice! That, to me, just adds insult to injury! After viewing appeal after appeal from the blood transfusion service emploring people to give just one pint, which could save someone's life I find it strange that they don't add a comment in at the end of the ad saying "oh, but if it's 'gay blood' we don't want it."! 
 
This rule may have gone unchallenged in 1977, but we are living in a world where "equality is paramount", yet the homosexual population are being shunted out the back door of the transfusion service! Just look at the stats on the increase of the HIV and AIDS infection in heterosexual people! It's not fair that someone who is just as at risk, if not more so, than I am should be allowed to donate and I can't! 
 
I came out of a five year relationship over a year ago, the reason we split up was because I found out that my bf had been cheating on me. So, I got tested, waited 3 months and got tested again, and had another test done 3 months after that (just to be sure). Since my last relationship I have not had sex with anyone and know for a fact that I am at no risk of having HIV or AIDS. Yet, the transfusion service will still not allow me to give blood, when they are in such high demand for it. 
 
If they are going to allow this rule to stay in place they must add make some changes, for instance; anyone who has ever had a tatoo or body peircing (thus putting themselves at risk) should be banned. Any hetrosexual woman who has ever had sex with a bisexual man (thus putting herself at risk) should also be banned, current or former drug abusers, medical professionals getting stuck with a needle by accident, the list would be endless and the blood stocks would run dry. What they should remember is that sex (never mind the gender of each participant) is not the only way that these horrible infections spread! 
 
Wow, I do go on a bit, don't I!?! Hope it made some sense! 
 
Thanks 
 
Pt
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Pete555
26-05-2006 07:22
BLOOD DONATION
This is so stupid. Its luping gay guys as badness.
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panther101
26-05-2006 01:16
me and giving blood
next year in my skool i'll be old enought to give blood and i want to but the law says i cant, because i am gay and i have had sex with men. i get testes regularly and im not positive, so i dont see the problem, i mean they check the blood anyway. this really makes me mad bc i wanna give blood but i dont wanna hide who i am, i can easily lie ont he questionaire but im uneasy about doing that... and i dont knwo what to do.  
 
the fact is HIV is more of a heterosexual disease now than homosexual. the fact is once aids epidemic broke out maybe it was more ocmmong among gays but not nemore we are being protected and beomcing aware n thats a big step up, and str8 pple dont think they can get it but they are ignorant to the fact and more of them are being reported having hiv...... this law totally sucks i mean the governemnt sucks
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xFABxFAGx
25-05-2006 03:04
WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
Why should we not be aloud to give blood? If we get hurt we have to have access to a blood donor, do we not? :upset  
 
 
Besides, who says you have to tell them.
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Shadow
25-05-2006 02:13
bloody government
i think it is totally ignorant that they say gay and bisexuals are more at risk then heterosexuals anyone can get an infection not just gays being gay you are more likely to be careful about what you do and who you do it with and your more likely to be tested then heterosexuals i think its just another way of them trying to be predjiduce against gays and it ticks me off to no end!! :upset
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crow
25-05-2006 00:38
bloody government
i think it is absolutely rediculous 
i am MUCH more careful when it comes to having sex than the majority (if not ALL) of my straight companions. The fact that I get rubber stamped as a potential risk just because of my sexual preferences is rediculous. 
I went to a blood donation centre within weeks of my 18th birthday not knowing of the regulations. I was a virgin at the time and yet just because I had given a BJ to my only BF in the past it meant I couldnt do anything. That has nothing to do with "specific behaviours". Imagine my embarassment as i had to run out of that room...
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alexmakestrax
24-05-2006 21:03
Blood
Thats tipical of the socity we live in today. anything that is diffrent is a threat.
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malc
24-05-2006 19:20
what!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I really cannot believe it! It's absoloutely rediculous! What's wrong with 'gay blood'? Do they think they're going to catch homosexuality? :? Its absolutely rediculous! Aren't we supposed to have the same rights as everyone else? We can get married in the UK now can't we? We eat, sleep and breathe! Why should our blood be any different? If they already test it why should it matter? This just shows the prejudice that is still in the world. It's homophobic! It makes me so angry, why do we get treated like this? Something really needs to be done! :upset :sigh
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jammyjace7690
24-05-2006 16:19
what the hell
Whats wrong with gay blood. Scared their gonna turn gay in 4 days and 4 nights? My blood is a good as any strait guys. :( [B][/B]
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