I remember it clearly. It was a cold February morning and I had been 15 for barely 3 months. I was in the Land of Nod dreaming of winning the Ms America Pageant. I was sternly awoken by very frantic and loud knocking on my door.

Jonny

I was promptly marched in my underwear down to the kitchen where mum sat smoking. “What’s this?” she asked. Fear seeped through my underwear as I answered “Porn?”, the classic “I don't know what it is” answer of a guilty boy. “What are you doing looking at this kind of stuff?”. Could questioning in my house get any more direct and personal? How about you ask for my penis size? “Are you gay?”'. Silence can speak a thousand words and I could see my dad’s eyes well and his face become red. “It’s OK if you are, you know” mum reassured. My heart was pounding for the few minutes until I released a whimpering “yes” I peered round the room and dad had his back to me pouring a cup of tea. Why? Why oh why did we buy a house that was structurally sound? I wanted a huge girder to come crashing down on me, but instead the net curtains brushed my leg lovingly. “Its OK!” mum exclaimed “We’ve already accepted it” at that point I swear to god her nose grew at least 6 foot. I was allowed to scamper back to my bed where I lay there for a good four hours starring at the ceiling. It took my mum a month or so to adjust to the change to which she is now clued up on gay life and she has embraced it with open arms. Dad, however, is still standing in the kitchen pouring a cup of tea. He never accepted me and we now lead separate lives.

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29-07-2008 19:53

a few of my mates know, 
none of them seem surprised by it really lol  
and i havnt told my mum but i think she has guessed lol xD 
 
and my dad doesnt live with me lol so it doenst matter to him!

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Liam_Rawr

21-07-2008 10:14

Awww dude, u are s o like toataly cute.  
 
This account made me laugh and cry, dude, and i thought my comming out story was difficult lol.  
 
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xBlakeyx

29-06-2008 17:34

I told my best mate a couple of years ago and she told me i was disgusting and it was a pahase. But of course i knew It wasent. So i have chose not to tell anyone else for the fear of the same thing happening! I wish i could but am scared my dad is dead homophobic!

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Jodie

23-06-2008 05:29

he he jonny, you're cute.  
and i'm sorry your dad is that way you know. maybe give him time. well, who am i to offer advice haha! i'm too scared to come out, even if it was kind of by accident you know. your brave!

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CowsPollute

18-05-2008 19:32

My dad still isn't too happy about who I am, and even though he talks like everything is ok, it's simple to tell that he wishes I wasn't. My mom said she knew, but I find that hard to believe since she went all REALLY?!

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CuriousCloud

01-05-2008 19:50

need help im 13, bi, need a way to come out to my mum(who is fine with it i think...) and my extreemly homophobic grandparents... really confuzing would love some help people

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ixiplushi

26-04-2008 09:05

to be honest there is two sides to my situation; to some degree i wish i never came out, to be frank people treat me differently and though they try it makes me feel uncomfortable, but on the other hand the freedom it gives you to be who you are is amazing.  
 
+for staying closeted while your young....means guys can stay the night :P 
 
one thing i simply cannot stress enough is that dont come out too soon live out your teen years experiencing the joys of life on both sides. then later on you will obviously be more sure in yourself and your sexuality, most parents say this in the hope you\'ll turn out straight as did my mum, but i ended up coming out much later and it was great, by that stage my parents were fine about it. 
 
my dad was the coolest about it, although i got a sex talk from him, THAT was weird as he is a doctor and i got an aids and protection talk LOL. soooooo awkward. my mum still acts funny about it, kinda makes me sad sometimes. but i suppose it is a hard thing to come to grips with. give your parents time, it really isnt an easy thing. they were brought up believing homosexuality is an evil thing, and lived through an era where alot of gay men died from aids, and naturally the only thing parents want is whats best for their kids. if you just be yourself and talk with them about such things im sure you can get a more positive outlook on life. 
 
my way was telling brothers and sisters first, then best friends, after that my mum. really parents shouldnt be told first as they\'re reactions can be spiteful and can really hurt you sometimes, its god to have someone to talk too.  
 
in finishing it is your choice; only come out when your comfortable in yourself.

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sandman

08-04-2008 22:17

Wow ur fit 
good 4 u 
 

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callanator

31-03-2008 14:25

aww thats soo cute babe x

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leeds_gigalo

30-03-2008 23:53

I wish i could say i had a mam that was tha cool, my mam always says she is open minded but when it comes to dealing with any problems she runs, my dad would hunt me down if he found out...parents might say that it's fine to be gay but as soon as its their own kids its a whole different story but i've started planning for the big day where i stop living a lie :D hope my mam will be as cool as yours ^^

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welshboy16

23-03-2008 17:50

thnx thats helped me a lot

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gm123

24-02-2008 19:08

i just told my mum, and shes a maried lebian so she took it quite well, and i just tell people the truth if they ask 

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alwall94

20-02-2008 02:36

i havent told ani one yet that i am gay  
what do i do

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class1room1crush

14-02-2008 18:15

I haven't told any one yet i'm to scared to tell them someone give me some help

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GuernseyGay

22-12-2007 20:34

u r sooooo brave! i havent come out 2 anyone yet, i am well 2 scared. i think my mum n dad will be ok with it, its a shame about your dad but its your choice not his.

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jbates18

15-12-2007 22:07

I still havent told my mom yet. Im to scared! btw you are rely cute!!

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callanator

11-12-2007 16:29

I'm glad you got it done and over with, that is what im affraid of, my dad and I living seperate lives...I know he won't accpet me...

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JBRocky1

22-10-2007 21:55

i hate my parents my dad would be the same or worse and my step mom would prob be like ur dad, but my dad wow, he might lock me up in the church, thats the onbly reason i wont come out at all,

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GayBoi_100

05-10-2007 18:31

wow  
good job  

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ibn0721

03-10-2007 00:27

omg i did tell my mom or dad yet they well kill btw u cute no one will aceppt me

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