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Tuesday, 22 November 2005

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Once you've found out there are gay people out there, and plenty of them at that, you might well wonder: what do they actually do? What is gay sex?

In a nutshell, it's any sort of sexual activity between two members of the same sex. Obviously, this can be unconventional: the combinations are not quite the same. Instead of a penis and vagina, there are two penises or two vaginas. Well, reproduction is not going to happen, but there are plenty of things gay people can do together to express their love and feel pleasure.

Is gay sex the same as anal sex?

A lot of gay men - though not most - enjoy having anal sex. This is when one partner inserts his penis into the other's anus. This might seem an odd thing to be doing, and some people find the whole idea unpleasant or 'dirty'. You don't have to have anal sex just because you're gay - though many straight people do it too - but if you'd like to try, it can be very pleasurable.

If you do, use a condom and lots of water-based or silicone-based lubricants - never oil or baby oil, which destroy condoms.

Where does the pleasure come from?

A lot of the pleasure from anal sex comes just from the feeling of being with your lover. It is also a physical pleasure because of the number of nerve endings in and around the anus, which are stimulated during sex.

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19-04-2008 19:18

cardiff ?

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11-04-2008 16:53

I had my first anal sex at age 14 and unlike the pain most seem to have felt I felt nothing and my whole life has been filled with meanless sex for me but pleasure for my "sex buddie" has anyone elase been this why and how do you built up the guts to say "no" {without having bad actions come your way} and get away from being the gay slut has anyone elase felt this way before :roll

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11-04-2008 12:32

Ok...Im 14 :grin

:grin

and i live in australia!...p.s im not into the whol anal sex thing...maybe its just cause im 14 but im only into touching or kissing...no more...lol...wel...thats just how i feel :grin

:grin

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08-04-2008 16:11

i read something about guys having g-spots is that true?

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06-04-2008 07:36

Does anybody have advice on finding a partner? I am 16 and live in a sheltered town. I came out to a female friend, but there are some things that I still dont feel like I could talk to her about. I want a boyfriend to talk to, and possibley have a sexual relationship. I just dont know where to start looking

please help!

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arielforever869

31-03-2008 17:26

well i have been top and bottom yes it hurts at first but when you get into it , its really pleasurable. i think it is good to try both ways to actually find out if you are the top or bottom or even both

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29-03-2008 01:05

I am hopefully going to have anal sex next weekend. :grin

:grin

I will be the one on top, so I hope he doesn't get turned off by the pain issue I hear alot about. :sigh

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17-03-2008 03:39

:grin

I've always enjoyed anal sex. I have never really understood the whole one role thing, I think if you are doing it, y'all should be switching up.
Both are very fun anyways.
Getting, well, fucked does hurt usually at first. It is all about the person and how their body reacts to it.
A certain position can usually be found as a starter that doesn't hurt the person getting fucked just to loosen up a bit.

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17-03-2008 03:02

Yea, wheres the girls part?!

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12-03-2008 13:59

Butt fucking (as i tend to call it) Im a top,but from what i hear being a bottom(accsily getting the cock) hurts @ first but then starts to feel really good.

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06-03-2008 19:14

Huh. Informative, but how come its all about the guys....? :roll

:roll

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03-03-2008 21:51

lawl
i'm terrified of anal sex, to be honestt.

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29-02-2008 23:11

u people are supposed to use this space commenting on the article not using it as gumtree speed dating services :roll

:roll

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29-02-2008 19:34

anyone in or near belleville, michigan

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22-02-2008 20:21

gay sex iz the best sex hands down

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PRINCESS_RAINBOW

18-02-2008 19:20

any1 from dundalk ireland or who can travel 2 dundalk msg me...im 16 m nd lukin 2 experiment

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15-02-2008 22:12

someone in mn, 17 year old looking to expierment with someone

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15-02-2008 22:10

someone in mn, 17 year old looking to expierment with someone

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13-02-2008 03:37

anyone in Holiston M.A. male gay 14

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12-02-2008 17:26

Yes im a male but when about the lesbian side of sex?
Great article... i love the ex[;anation of the g spot.
:eek

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12-02-2008 04:17

im 14 and want gay sex rreeaallyy bad. so if u live in iowa or by waterloo message me.

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06-02-2008 19:56

ani 1 in middlesborough

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04-02-2008 18:38

anybody in canterbury or around there go to my profile and talk to me.

16-20 please only.

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23-01-2008 20:40

so, any advice on lesbian sex???

(any bi or lesbian girl interested in lesbian sex privately email me!)

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23-01-2008 01:19

anyone over in north jersey whos gay? preferably like 15-17

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22-01-2008 18:42

im gay , 14 frm u.k. any1 want to talk .... :grin

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08-01-2008 03:58

hey neone in louisiana lafayette region then message me.15 and lookin for a good time with male my age.

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04-01-2008 00:23

i just wondered, still abit unevan about the sex thing, if a guy dosent wear a condom (but dosent ejactulate) is there still a chance of catching HIV or an STD?

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03-01-2008 16:05

Any gays in or around Deland Fl. im 14 and looking for some fun

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01-01-2008 07:14

I want to talk to someone whoa gay cause I haven't came out to my parents yet only my friend. If u want to talk sign my guest book.

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30-12-2007 22:36

I know how odd this seems but any of the girls that are curious about lesbian sex just private message me... Any girl here from MO???

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27-12-2007 11:04

Hey gay guy here 14 years old
Anyone live round basingstoke area that id gay looking for some fun
private message me if you want to talk

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23-12-2007 21:45

hi i am cory i just turned 14 i live in glendora any one in glendora lookin for a long wet fun time.email me at This e-mail address is being protected from spam bots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it we can do it bolth ways!!

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21-12-2007 02:19

strange but interesting...

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16-12-2007 07:03

annapolis md area?

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15-12-2007 23:16

I need sex over here in san antonio texas

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13-12-2007 03:33

is there anyone in illinois, near rockford, or close to it, message me!!!

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29-11-2007 13:57

i rly would like to find someone... anyone in the midlands of scotland ( Linlithgow)? cos no1 is gay here, im 15 and looking for a kl guy, who likes to laugh

, im just getting so lonely :sigh

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27-11-2007 02:46

anyone in virginia, richmond to be exact im 15 and looking hard

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22-11-2007 05:52

this was really helpful i think, but what about lesbian sex? you kinda only hit half the subject here.

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