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Tuesday, 22 November 2005
gay sex adviceOnce you've found out there are gay people out there, and plenty of them at that, you might well wonder: what do they actually do? What is gay sex?

In a nutshell, it's any sort of sexual activity between two members of the same sex. Obviously, this can be unconventional: the combinations are not quite the same. Instead of a penis and vagina, there are two penises or two vaginas. Well, reproduction is not going to happen, but there are plenty of things gay people can do together to express their love and feel pleasure.



Is gay sex the same as anal sex?

A lot of gay men - though not most - enjoy having anal sex. This is when one partner inserts his penis into the other's anus. This might seem an odd thing to be doing, and some people find the whole idea unpleasant or 'dirty'. You don't have to have anal sex just because you're gay - though many straight people do it too - but if you'd like to try, it can be very pleasurable.

If you do, use a condom and lots of water-based or silicone-based lubricants - never oil or baby oil, which destroy condoms.
Where does the pleasure come from?
A lot of the pleasure from anal sex comes just from the feeling of being with your lover. It is also a physical pleasure because of the number of nerve endings in and around the anus, which are stimulated during sex.

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27-10-2009 02:36
Gunna b giving a bj prety soon can u get an std from that message me
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15-10-2009 13:52
The 1st time i had anal was terrible.The guy knew i was a virgin,but when straight at it.No foreplay and spit for lube.I use a dildo now.I'm in control!
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11-10-2009 21:57
i heaed it was painfull....if it hurts how can it be pleaureable :?
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11-10-2009 08:07
Keep in mind anal sex is VERY pleasurable but also more so dangerous than penis-vagina sex. 
 
Anal sex can cause the anal muscles to loose their flexibility and can basically form a wide open, never closing hole where the anus is. This results in more diarrhea and other issues. Also, if performing anal sex without a condom, your odds of getting an STD are twice that of penis-vaginal sex. 
 
If you can, it IS best to avoid anal sex... 
 
But if it\\\'s your thing, enjoy!
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30-07-2009 01:54
im a virgin BUT I WANNA GIVE A BJ SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO BAD
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08-07-2009 21:20
what the hell why are u guys useing this thing to pick up guys i mean come on this is advice not write i add for sex
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06-07-2009 20:20
snjnskajmkld D;  
lol sexy advice ;D  
i love it ;D 
im in michigan sadly theres prob no one O.O
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06-07-2009 20:20
snjnskajmkld D;  
lol sexy advice ;D  
i love it ;D 
im in michigan sadly theres prob no one O.O
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27-06-2009 06:10
Anyone in New Jersey? 
hit me up for sex. I'm 17
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21-06-2009 11:38
Heya! looking for a relationship, preferably local to essex, havering. not discriminating, just wants someone with a nice personality and a willingness to be experimental :p
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15-06-2009 02:21
any body in albuquerque?
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15-06-2009 02:09
Living single sadly single :cry in NJ any 1 with me and or wants to help out :p
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13-06-2009 03:40
anyone live in burque? 
up for anal!! 
im so horny 
ive had anal and it does feel good at times but i want to give oral!!! write me!
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12-06-2009 01:26
Hey, if theres anyone in ky looking for a partner, I am single :cry
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06-06-2009 01:52
anal sex is fun and so is oral sex, im from australia, its not dirty at all but most pleasurable, i enjoy giving and recieving it and will keep on doing it, regardless of what religiouse organizations may label us as, we should not stop what we are doing just because some people dont like what we do, lets all unite together and fight someone wrote that at the bottom i agree
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03-06-2009 05:43
Hey i was wondering if anyone could talk to me about lez sex 
so if you have any ideas or advice please message me
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28-05-2009 17:52
what about lesbians? C'mon!
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25-05-2009 06:29
heyy ive never had anal sex before but i probably will soon haha i just wanna know does it hurt?
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23-05-2009 15:30
:? yeah how do two lesbians do it?
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18-05-2009 20:11
how does two girls have sex
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17-05-2009 04:38
i like in chino hills and yes there are gay people here but i am the one who u would think is weird so they don"t talk to me just because i can be crazy at times :cry
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10-05-2009 01:40
OMG i want to do it so bad, but i havent came out yet cuz all my friends think im straight, and i think one of my freinds is gay and i think hes hot so wat should i do? and also what happens if you swalllow urine/semen?
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06-05-2009 23:38
i cant wait to do it with someone i love
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02-05-2009 21:17
Around stamford, CT? :?
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29-04-2009 05:41
Anyone live around Cedar Falls, Iowa? I havnt told anyone im gay, but im looking for a relationship
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27-04-2009 07:25
Looking for a relationship. Maybe it will lead into sex =P. Hit me up!
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24-04-2009 02:10
hey everybody, im lookin to hook up w/ people 13- 16 for xxx. i need to find out for sure if im gay , bi , or straight. message me. i live in ST.LOUIS, MISSOURI. :?
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19-04-2009 20:17
anyone in san jose? 
16 18? 
message!
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19-04-2009 11:42
Any one in kent up for a bit? 
 
message me :)
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12-04-2009 06:35
Anyone in NY??? close to Long Island?? message me!! (14-18?)
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05-04-2009 05:37
eny body from hopksville ky or around verginia,lookin for my first time like to be whith a person that is skiny tall and funn o and 14-16... not raceal or enythin but i prefer the brown or white meat :grin :grin :p 8) ;) :)
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05-04-2009 05:36
eny body from hopksville or around verginia,lookin for my first time like to be whith a person that is skiny tall and funn o and 14-16... not raceal or enythin but i prefer the brown or white meat :grin :grin :p 8) ;) :)
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04-04-2009 00:29
looking to see if anyone is looking for a relationship, message me!
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26-03-2009 16:54
any guys in the Philadelphia, PA area? I'll talk to anyone if they are hot but local is better =)
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24-03-2009 17:12
Any1 From LONDON ?? 
 
Wanna meet up ?? Message me xD
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23-03-2009 18:49
Any one in Texas area (around Austin) hit me up Age (15-17) ?maybe higher, maybe lower?
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23-03-2009 18:48
Any one in Texas area (around Austin) hit me up Age (15-17) ?maybe higher, maybe lower?
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22-03-2009 08:50
Nebraska teens? Maybe 14-18? Whatever happens, happens. check out my profile.
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18-03-2009 00:50
anyone from or aroung Grand Rapids Michigan hit me up i wanna try some anal hahahaha :grin im15
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18-03-2009 00:49
anyone from or aroung Grand Rapids Michigan hit me up i wanna try some anal hahahaha :grin
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