someone who is not too full of themselves, can laugh easily and laugh at themselves (or me.. i am clumsy :P) who is laid back but still has motivation for life. i'm a total believer in personality as being the best attractive feature, after all looks will fade, personality won't :)
i want someone who isn't afraid to talk about their deepest feelings, fears, etc. someone who can talk easily and who won't hold anything back. there shouldn't be secrets in a relationship.
i don't smoke or drink, but i don't mind drinking; smoking i DO mind.