lol...sooo pointless. i think that lonely people need to man up about themselves and, especially gays in small communities where one may find oneself alone quite a long time, need to realize that they are screwed. well, not literally of course, but i mean its all in the odds you play, and your chances are slim either way. to find someone who's right...bah, humbug i say, find someone who you can actually talk to for more than ten seconds. there is so much superficiality and gratuitous self depossesment when it comes to many gay men that when two guys meet for the first time its like...soo...your gay...im gay...lets bang. then its over. you cant meet someone who's right without meeting a whole bunch of people beforehand. you wouldnt know what to look for lol.

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