While I will not go into deep details concerning my life, I fully understand homophobia and the abusiveness it brings.  
 
It is said that in order for gold to become its most valuable, it must be tested through fire. Likewise, in order for us to become stronger, we must go through the fire as well. 
 
It is through circumstances such as mine, yours, and countless others have had that we either become leaders for others and guides for those who are going through the same story... or we become nothing, bound by the chains and the ghosts of the past.  
 
This is a message to all who read this. There is no shame in being bullied. The only shame that comes is what you put upon yourself. What most people do not understand is that no walk has to be alone. There are always others willing to walk with you, and there are always those who are watching and wanting to help. It's all a matter of asking. 
 
So, never be afraid. If you ever need help or want to talk, contact me here. I can honestly say that through all that I have been through, nothing will surprise me. If you aren't comfortable with me, a friend, religious leader, or victim help services. The tools are out there. 
 
Sometimes, all it takes is just swallowing your pride. I know the truth of that. 
 
Thank you for sharing. It truly provides a multi-faceted aspect of what occurs in this world- I am compelled to share, if there are those who wish to listen.

Registered