This is advice for anyone in a situation like this, or anyone who\'s not and is just curious.  
These are my thoughts on this and related subjects. It\'s very frank.  
This is the way things are today: In the world we live in, people go around looking for love. They look for someone to spill out all their b.s. on. They make the other person fully accountable for their happiness. It never seems to work out, does it? No. They become an addict and the other becomes the drug, or vice-versa. Am I wrong? Think about it. Not to say that it goes to show how horrible people are, because that\'s not true. My point is, however, that all the love we need already lies within us. People in today\'s society create images of who we want, and we go out and seek it. In a true relationship, there is ONLY two parts. You and your other person. First of all, before you can ever love another person and have the wonderful relationship that everyone seeks, you must first love yourself. Did I say you have to be in love with yourself? No. Am I saying that you have to be full of yourself? No. Am I saying that you have to act like you\'re confident and you believe in yourself when you think you can\'t? No. I AM saying this: Think of all humans in this way. We all live on a planet, a planet called Earth. On this planet, all the humans have extremely sensitive skin. If you were to touch someone\'s skin, it would cause that person great pain, and the blisters would not stop growing, that is, they would multiply. Therefore, if you are touched, you will then want to seek revenge on who touched you. You\'d want to touch them back. This is like the human mind. When we are hurt, we simply cannot let go of the pain without some kind of reflex. It\'s human nature, not discourtesy or disrespect. Sometimes we take the pain out on ourselves. We see ourselves as unworthy, unloving, and undeserving. Yet we still try to build relationships, and even get married and have kids and build a life. And remember: all the love we could possibly need lies within ourselves. And the funny thing is that life is so simple. The paradox is that so few people understand. We all have the choices to make our life what we want it to be. And we all want the best. Yet we never take the time to think things out for ourselves. It\'s amazing how small misunderstandings like these can lead to entire literary works of frustration. And they multiply. Let me know if any of this was helpful. I\'d like your feedback. And obviously, I\'m not here looking for someone. 
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