As with many before me, I applaud your incredible tolerance. 
 
But I must say, reading your story has deeply worried me. You need to take care of yourself. Your husband\'s needs are secondary to yours in this situation, and your husband (ex-husband, by now, I hope) should understand that. Take care of yourself, scream at him when you need, get it all out! Do whatever you must do (within the bounds of the law, of course). 
 
When I read that you went to gay clubs with him, I almost died. Not even I can stand gay clubs, and I\'m one of \"them.\" 
 
But, hey, I\'m young. I could easily be being naive. 
Please take care.

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