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01-01-2006 18:26
You have done so much for your husband. More than any wife should be expected to do. Your testiment shows true love, and its people like you that still make marriage in our world, worth it.
You must however take stock of your own feelings as well. Have you any friends or family that you can surround yourself with in this tough time? You and your husband (and children) are at the moment living on the never never. Sooner or later the pendulem will sway. It's up to you to decide which way. The best that can come out of this, is a deep, close and ever lasting friendship. Surely, thats what marriage is all about, when sex is taken out of the equation? Make it clear to your husband (and yourself) that you are no longer 'together'. You are free to meet a new man, as is he. You will always both be there for your children, and each other. But not in the traditional sense. In this situation you have to bite the bullet. And you've well and truely swallowed it. It's up to your husband now to honour that duty, and give something back to your happiness. If you, (or anyone that is reading this and is in a similar situation) wants to talk to me, just look up my profile on the GYC, and PM me. I will be happy to speak anytime.
You must however take stock of your own feelings as well. Have you any friends or family that you can surround yourself with in this tough time? You and your husband (and children) are at the moment living on the never never. Sooner or later the pendulem will sway. It's up to you to decide which way. The best that can come out of this, is a deep, close and ever lasting friendship. Surely, thats what marriage is all about, when sex is taken out of the equation? Make it clear to your husband (and yourself) that you are no longer 'together'. You are free to meet a new man, as is he. You will always both be there for your children, and each other. But not in the traditional sense. In this situation you have to bite the bullet. And you've well and truely swallowed it. It's up to your husband now to honour that duty, and give something back to your happiness. If you, (or anyone that is reading this and is in a similar situation) wants to talk to me, just look up my profile on the GYC, and PM me. I will be happy to speak anytime.
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