I think that you are amazing and very good for having taken the news so well. While it is noble and admirable that you accept your husband and care about his feelings, I hope also that you are considerate of your feelings and needs as well. If I were in your shoes, I would get out and start my own life. I know that it will be difficult, but you both will be happier for it. You can continue seeing eachother and you may become the best of friends, but don't sacrifice your heart and your life for his.

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